Hi Chop,
I share your frustration. One of the benefis of software iSCSI should be that the data is in an .img file and and you can do what you want with it. Apparently you can't even make a copy of it. Even my VSS enabled backup software fails with the service stopped.
To my "Fat Ears" many of these terms sound like the same thing- HA, Snapshot/CDP, Mirror, Replication, etc. But of course they are not. ( I can discard HA, I know I don't need it.) I have been thinking of Replication as meaning a 1:1 duplicate copy of the .img file. So, to me, Mirror = Replication. ([Q1] Do these terms mean the same thing?) I thought I had it figured out until I read- "SNAPSHOT REPLICATION is designed to solve exactly your task - copy accumulative amounts of data @ the background." (my emphasis) I hate to sound so picky here, but these definitions are crucial to understanding the options.
In his recent post, Anton said- "The snapshot/journal is no good as a backup solution if the data is held on the same device". Ok yet, even if you set journaling to another device, it seems to still require the original file, so S/J can Never provide "backup" ([Q2] Is this correct?) Chop- I wonder if you can fool the "local disk" requirement by directing the journal device to an iSCSI drive on a different computer

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I think Mirror = Replication. Anton says- "you need to use Mirror to have data replicated to remote node". This sounds like the real solution since the mirror can be an iSCSI on another computer.
I think what I need is called- Asynchronous Mirroring and Remote Replication (Active-Passive)
However in order to get it I need the Starwind HA version that supports- Synchronous Mirroring (Active-Active High Availability)
[Q3] Do I have this right?
Unless, of course, somebody can tell me how to simply make a copy of an .img file

thanks, Ed